Wednesday, June 29, 2011

Christian the Creative One



This is my son Christian. 
 
I find him to be a very peculiar boy. In this picture he is sporting his suit and bow tie.  For weeks, he bugged me about getting him a bow tie (and also about getting a suit).  A few weeks ago, on a Saturday, I took him to J.C. Penney’s and got him both.  He was so excited about having his new suit and his bow tie, that he placed everything on a hanger so it would be ready for him to wear on Sunday morning.  But he didn’t just hang his clothes up as I would have.  Christian decided to do it in style.  Starting from the top of the hanger, he first placed his white shirt, then his suit coat on top.  He wrapped his bow tie around the neck of the shirt and hanger.  He then found another hanger that has clips on the bottom.  He placed this hanger on the bottom of the shirt hanger, then clipped his pants, full length, onto the second hanger. All this he hung on the towel rod, which made it look a little bit like a headless boy.  But then to top it off, he placed his dress shoes at the ends of the pant legs. I didn’t see him set it up, so when I later went into the bathroom and saw his empty, upright clothing almost staring back at me, I couldn’t help but laugh out loud.

However, what I really want to talk about is Christian’s birthday.  We gave him a bicycle and bike ramps, which he really likes.  However, I think we were still outdone by his Grandpa and Grandma.  He opened their gift first thing, and was extremely pleased with it.  Underneath the wrapping paper was a small, orange file type box.  Opening the box, Christian found six rolls of duct tape, each roll a different color (he offered to give me the pink roll).  Next he found a package of nylon locking ties.  Finally, he found a set a stubby Sharpie permanent markers.  He put the markers on a lanyard, and then used them all day at our yard sale to help mark prices.  It wasn’t long after that before he found a few good uses for his duct tape.  Here is a picture of a pocket knife scabbard, made from a piece of light cardboard and lots of green duct tape.
Duct Tape Knife Scabbard


I can’t wait to see what Christian will next find to do with his duct tape, so long as it isn’t taping his sister or cat to the wall.

Thursday, July 1, 2010

What a summer it has been so far!  It started off with a bang when Chelsea finished up her performance season with a final concert.  The very next day she and I left for The Big Apple for the annual Clayton Productions tour.  What a whirlwind of a week that was!  Our flight there was a red-eye and many of the kids took an ambien on the airplane to help them get some sleep.  It worked well for most of the kids, but one poor girl was so affected that she thought aliens were attacking.  On our trip were 49 kids ranging in age from 15 to 18, both boys and girls.  These are some really great kids, who have a lot of fun together and then when it's time to put on a show they get down to business!  Each one is assigned a piece of equipment to set up for each performance.  Chelsea had a sub woofer.

Our first day was spent at the Statue of Liberty, where the kids had an impromptu a'capella performance of patriotic songs.  We also spent some time at Central Park and had a nice dinner.  When the day was over we were all about dead.

At Central Park Most of the kids found there way to the Plaza and we took a group photo.  Chelsea's on the top right

For me one of the main highlights of the trip was watching the kids perform.   We had performances at homes for the elderly, the Brooklyn Children's museum, a children's hospital, the  Southstreet Seaport and so many other places.  Usually between 2 and 3 performances a day, either a full show in costume or a simple a'capella performance.

  Chelsea's Seussical medley was so much fun!


I also really enjoyed seeing the diverse culture that makes up New York City.  It was amazing to ride across town on the bus and go from everything being advertised in Spanish, to Chinese, to Italian.  I just loved it!

The other highlights of the trip for me were the World Trade Center memorial museum, seeing Mary Poppins on Broadway, visiting the Empire State Building and spending a few hours in Times Square.  Oh, and the cheeeeeescake!  mmmmm!  What a place New York is!


 Chelsea and I at the Statue of Liberty


Despite having a inept bus driver who caused us to miss a performance, I really loved the time on the bus.  I was able to chat with Chelsea quite a bit, but mostly got to know the other Chaperones better.  Terri was our fearless bus captain.  She made the bus rides so much fun!  I feel like I made some great new friends (which doesn't come easy for me) and I'm so glad I got to know them.



 I was incredibly lucky to get these great girls in my room.  They made chaperoning easy! 

Mostly, I enjoyed watching my Chelsea sing and dance her heart out.  She performed her best every time, made lots of new friends, avoided a CTR (Clayton Tour Romance) and handled difficult situations with maturity and grace.  I was so proud of her and loved spending the time with her.  She has an amazing personality, and a super funny sense of humor.  I am grateful that I was able to spend this week with her.


 Chels dancing with her friend Tony in the Beach Boys medley

These kids loved the performance and wanted to take pictures with the Clayton performers.


My girls after the South Street Seaport performance.  So cute!

Saturday, March 13, 2010

Bragging Rights





I don't know if I'm going to jinx myself for saying this or not but I have awesome kids! I am so amazed by each of them every day for completely different reasons.

Last week Alyssa tried out for the Riverton High School talent competition and was one of 9 finalists chosen. The program, which was held last night was interesting to say the least. There were all kinds of acts and each was VERY talented, and there were four judges. As each contestant got ready to perform they were called out on stage and had to sit on a couch and be interviewed by the host (think high school aged Conan Obrien, except lots more awkward) It was a little bit lame, but funny and the kids liked it. There were singers, dancers, pianists, video makers and then, of course a harpist.

This past few months Alyssa has made a lot of progress on the harp. She is nearing the end of her junior year and is starting to think about college and is taking it more seriously. She has a wonderful new harp teacher who swears to me that Alyssa will be "college audition ready" by mid summer. I'm starting to believe her, but that's mostly because of the change I've seen in Alyssa. She practices for an hour and a half every day, and will be practicing more when summer comes. Our next step is to get her a pedal harp, which we will be doing very soon. They cost around the same as a new car. When you take college scholarships into consideration the investment is definitely worth it!

I was so nervous last night! It took me back to watching my brothers run at state cross country races! Alyssa looked beautiful though. Chelsea did her hair, and she wore the dress she got for 9th grade promotion, which is gorgeous on her! She didn't seem all that nervous, which is pretty incredible to me.

When it was Alyssa's turn, she came out to the couch and the "host" asked her a question about how long she had been playing. She gave a very confident answer and then when she sat at her harp a weird hush fell over the previously rowdy audience. She played very well, and the audience cheered. Lots of the other acts had been more contemporary, such as Beyonce songs, and it is strange how the harp quiets and calms. The "host" was even more awkward and speechless after, but did mutter something about it being "heavenly". I liked that.

When they handed out the awards Alyssa took second place! She won a plaque, and a small amount of money. The boy who took first is a pianist. I think a brilliant concert pianist. As soon as he played I knew he would win, and he deserved first place. I appreciated that even though it was a high school competition the judges recognized talent over what is popular.

I know in the future I will have lots of things to brag about regarding my other three kids, but last night was Alyssa's night, and I couldn't have been more proud.

Friday, March 12, 2010

A Post From Paigie

Hi there my name is Paigie make sure you were green for St. Patricks day because i'm coming!
I love holidays espesialy St. Patricks day. I love to get into it it is soo much fun, running , and hiding it has alot of excitment

have fun
Paigie

Mister Christian




Christian is our only boy. We had him after having three girls and we've enjoyed watching him grow up. He's just such an interesting kid! Carlos and I really think that raising confident kids is important, and we have found that one of the best ways to do this is to find out what they are naturally good at and help direct their path. So it has taken a while with Christian. We've discussed sports, , BMX racing, and music, and even though he seems to have some musical abilities, he just wasn't interested.

Several months ago I spent three solid days in the garage with my dad building shelves and organizing and we had lots of time to talk. Over those three days he helped me realize that Christian had a very mechanical mind. He has always asked dozens of questions about any given subject, from space, to poison, to how an outhouse works. Carlos has always been so patient to answer all his questions and I have literally spent hours on the computer with Christian googling whirlpools, pyramids, tornadoes, black holes and any other subject that might interest him. After our "garage bonding time" dad brought over a little four wheeler for Christian. He gave him a tool kit, and showed him all about taking care of it, giving him full responsibility for the little machine. (side note: I firmly believe that it takes more than two parents to raise a child!) Dad also built Christian his own little tool bench where he could store his little tools and have his own area to design, build and invent.

These past few months I have just watched Christians mind go into full gear, coming up with all sorts of inventions and ideas. Several weeks ago he designed a "ski bike" which his dad helped him build in the garage. (I love Carlos!) Last week was "trap" week! Christian set up traps which included string tied to Crayola markers which propped up basketballs which would roll down the stairs when you tripped the trap! (scared the bajeebies out of me one morning when the cat got caught!)

Last Monday for FHE Alyssa helped us put together a new family time capsule and Christian very quickly drew up a couple of inventions he plans on designing some day to add to the capsule. He will be 14 when we open it, and I will be interested to see how he reacts to his drawings! One was for a contraption that eliminates sound, and I didn't totally understand the other one, but it was some sort of electrical stick?

The funny part of all this is that Christian will disappear with some cardboard, rubber tubing, duct tape and wire and come back with something incredible. But if you ask him what he's doing, while he's working on it he won't tell you. He's just a little shy about it sometimes. Having said that, I have enjoyed watching him develop his talents. I love how his eyes light up when he has come up with something new. I love all his questions and how he absorbs every bit of information he can get on subjects of interest!

Friday, March 5, 2010

I'm Baaaack!



Passwords. I can't remember any of them! I finally reset my password so that I can post on my own blog. How sad is that!

Anyway, today is an important day at our house. It is the three month anniversary of "the Christmas light incident". On the evening of December 5, I was laying in bed when I received a call from Carlos. He said "can you please come outside?" and I said "well no, because I'm in my skivvies" (is that how you spell skivvies?) Then he said the 6 words that began our adventure. "I think I broke my foot". So naturally I got dressed and hollered for Alyssa and we went outside and what we saw was so pitiful. The ladder was laying in the driveway, Christmas lights were strewn about and my dear husband was injured. We helped him into the house and when we took his shoe off it was obvious that we were going to the hospital.

So they took some Xray's and we waited for the news. One of the nurses came in and asked if we had seen the Xrays and when I told her we hadn't, she literally dragged me behind the counter at the nurses station where all the other nurses were gathered gaping at Carlos' Xrays. To make a long story short, the orthopedic doctor there said it was the worst foot break he had seen and referred us to a specialist. We really had hoped they could cast it up and send us home but that wasn't happening.

So two surgeries later (including screws and pins) and a two casts and a boot, it has been three long months. I didn't realize how much went into the man work thing, including all the driving, snow shoveling, trash removing, not to mention all the nursing care. Good grief. So this morning it snowed and for the first time Carlos was able to go outside and use his monster snow blower for the first time (or as my SIL has dubbed it, BASB...it took me a minute to get that) I was so excited not to have to do the shoveling that I took my camera out and snapped some pictures! I will try and post them, but since it's been so long since I posted anything, I might not remember how! Anyway, hooray for the three month anniversary of "the incident"!!!

Wednesday, December 2, 2009

Judge Learned Hand

I wrote so faithfully when I was in China, and we were always on the go there. But now, I again find it difficult to find time to write. I really can't believe it is now December. I find that when ever I go on a trip, the next few weeks after returning fly by incredibly fast. Maybe it was something to do with E=mc2.

I was thinking about what I should write. This is my family blog, so I think it should be about my family. Nevertheless, I always find it extremely difficult to take my mind off of work. This leads me to think about Judge Learned Hand. Judge Hand was a judge on one of the federal circuit Court's of Appeal. I don't think his writing or legal reasoning were greatly supirior to other federal judges who wrote appellate opinions, but for some reason other judges in writing their appellate or district level opinions very often have cited to Judge Hand's opinions to give support to their own findings. (It is a very common practice for appellate judged to cite other cases, and then to either show how the cases support their findings, or how the case is significantly different. It is much less common, however, to site the name of the authoring judge unless it is one of the US Supreme Justices that they are citing). This then begs the question as to why so many other judges have cited Judge Hand's opinions and also stated the author's name. I think the silly, obvious answer is the correct answer. Judges like to say, "according the the learned Judge Learned Hand in XYZ Case..." I guess this shows that judges are people too.

Judge Learned Hand's name came up in about 2,600 published federal Court of Appeals cases and 230 US Supreme Court cases.

Monday, November 16, 2009

Christian · Who

I have failed to be the prolific BLOG writer that I wanted to be. Oh well. Maybe if someone would pay to see what I write, that would be motivating.

Moving on. Christian is a most interesting child. He gets a little bit obsessed with things. He even admits he gets obsessed with things. I checked out from the library some of the Doctor Who videos, and Christian has become a bit obsessed about them. He wanted to find a refrigerator box to make it look like the Doctor's tardis (police box) and put it in front of his bedroom door, to try to achieve the same size anomaly (you see only a box, but when you walk it... tada! it is as big as his bedroom). He had to make do with putting a piece of paper stating "police box" and a drawn window on his bedroom door. He also wrote out in detailed instruction how to make a toy "sonic screwdriver" using a Crayola magic marker and colored duct tape, and made a few of them himself. He even chanced is Poptropica passwords to words related to Doctor Who. I am sure this will pass, and he will go back to wanting to make a hand flipper.

Sunday, November 1, 2009

Too many candy corns

Too many candy corns last night. At least that was my excuse for being more than fashionably late for Bishopric meeting this morning. It was really a lame excuse as I didn't even eat any candy corns last night; I polished them all of a couple of nights ago already. And I can't even blame it on the time change as we got an extra to sleep last night, not an hour less. I guess what ever the reason, I was just really tired, and fell back asleep after my alarm woke me up. Sorry about that.

I hope everyone had a wonderful Halloween, and am happy that Halloween won't be here for another year, until I am ready to eat candy corns again.

Saturday, October 31, 2009

Halloween is Here (and thankfully almost gone)


Alyssa and Eden. The 1980's live on.


Chelsea and Christie, the nerd and the princess


Jessica (ninja) Christian (dementor) Justin (Iron Man) and Paigie (bumble bee) ready to go out trick-or-treating


I have to admit that I enjoy taking the little ones out trick-or-treating. Kennedy Paige, dressed up as a bumble bee, was the oldest in the group this year. She went out with Christian, and their two younger cousins, Jessica and Justin. Their mom and I were always close behind.

This year we are in a new neighborhood, and I wasn't sure what to expect as far as how many trick-or-treaters would stop by, so I bought about $50 worth of "fun size" sweets. I still have at least $35 in candy left over. Had I been the person giving out the candy, I would have doubled or tripled up on the servings, but I was out wandering in the cold, dark streets behind the four children, which is where I would rather be since I have been told that I am not allowed to scare the little kids as the come up to the door and ask for candy. As we went from house to house (which took a long time, as the yards are larger in this neighborhood than in our old neighborhood, and as there are many vacant houses) I noted a couple funny things. First was way the Paige would always say "trick or treat." You may be asking what is funny about that. Well, writing it down without explanation loses something. Most people, including myself, say "tricker-treat" but not Paigie. At every door she came to, she was most careful to always clearly enunciate every word: "Trick OR treat." Maybe she was really expecting a trick at at least a few of the doors. The other funny things was Jessica. She loves pets, and every time she would be at a door where someone had a dog, she would make little cooing sounds at the dogs, similar to the way most other people coo at a baby.

Chelsea had a friend over, and did a little bit of trick-or-treating. Alyssa had a bunch of friends over. In fact, it seemed that they were still showing up half-hour before the party started to wind down. Unfortunately I don't know most of them, but they seem like pretty good kids.

Friday, October 30, 2009

Chinese Wardrobe

All of us liked the silk robes and outfits I brought home from China.

Blogging in General

I began to think about people who make their living off of their blogs (and the like), and wondering why I couldn't do that. Then it hit me. I am boring. Not that I try to be, but I look at the Salt Lake Tribune's Robert Kirby, and I simply lack the dry, sly, slightly provocative humor that Kirby has. I mean, I don't even have a pretend friend, like Bammer, who has been my friend and confidant since childhood. I like his gig. He writes his article on Sunday, Monday and Wednesday, unless he is gone on vacation, and then the Trib does a reprint (royalty payments? Probably work product of the Tribune, so Kirby has to pay the Trib when he publishes his books). Most of his articles are fun to read and have me laughing while in my favorite reading room.

Nor to I have a chip on my shoulder like Heather B. Armstrong, that allows me to aim my animosity towards an organization that many people love, and many other people love to hate. I can't believe that the adds on her blog site have become the sole source of her family's income! Maybe I could find something or someone to berate while describing my dailly doings, but all I can think of is the IRS. That would bore people to tears, except for the accounts and tax attorneys, who wouldn't read it because I am just not educated enough to complain about it on their level.

I guess that leaves me to talk about the mundane, with no remuneration, save for my satisfaction of having written down just a little bit for my posterity.

Thursday, October 29, 2009

My Birthday Week - Big 40

Since before we were married, Rochelle has celebrated her birthday the entire week prior to her birthday, calling it her birthday week. One day a year is just not enough for her. Well, here I sit on my birthday week. But not just any birthday week, but my 40th birthday week. I am not sure how I feel about that. Different people feel different ways on their 40th birthday, and I just don't know which category I should put myself into this week. Well, since it is my birthday week, maybe I will try a different emotion for each day of the week.

Tuesday: I wonder if my body will start falling apart, like many others I know, when they hit 40.
Wednesday: Hey, Greg Peterson is competing in an Ironman triathlon next week, and he is five years older than I am, so 40 can't be too bad.
Thursday: An MRI or CT Scan? I just can't decide.
Friday: They say 40 is the new 30. Well, I don't believe that but maybe something like, "My fortieth birthday can be the first day of the best of my life" (I find that more appealing that the "rest" of my life)
Saturday: Who can think about birthdays, I have sprinkler lines to put in and trick-or-treat candy to hand out.
Sunday: Mentally blocking that day out. I think a few people are coming over to remind me of my age. I think I have some Church reports that need to be done.
Monday: Hey, I am forty years old today, so I think it's high time I decided for myself, without asking anyone's permission, that I am going fishing!

I guess no matter what I think of it, I will be completing my 40th year within the week. It makes me feel a little bit old, but also a little bit wise, along with the hope that I have not yet come to the half way point. There's just so much more to do.

Tuesday, October 27, 2009

Choir Concert in the Forbidden City

Photo: Choir at the Forbidden City Concert Hall (poor quality of photo is because I had to use my mobile phone camera)

On to the second to last night in Beijing. I think this will be my last entry about China. The Choir had the opportunity to sing their entire program in the performance hall located within the Forbidden City, on the eastern edge. We, the choir lackeys, were able to obtain tickets at a significantly discounted price. Our tickets cost us $5.00, but according to the ticket stub, had a face value of about $85 US. It wasn’t a sell out, but it did have reasonably good attendance. The choir did a fantastic job, and again, as before, it was a super crowd pleaser that they sang “Same Song” and invited the audience to sing along in the expected parts. Our local tour guide assigned to our bus told us the next day that their Chinese pronunciation was very good. She was able to go, as I later found out, because a couple of choir members from our bus bought a ticket for her. The acoustics of that theater were not the best I have heard, but they were a marked improvement over the acoustics in the theater in Shanghai. It was interesting how the program was MC’ed. At first, prior to the intermission, a young man got up to announce the choir and made a few comments. He read from a piece of paper in his hand, and did so in a very robotic manner. Apparently, one of our head tour guides, Tang Cai, was going to be the MC, but with all that had happened earlier that day (when Afton fell and broke her knee), the tour company owner from the US forgot to bring Cai’s suit, so at first, he refused to go on stage. But after hearing the other MC a couple of time, he put on someone’s sports coat and went out, and did a wonderful job. I, of course, couldn’t understand much of what he said, but I did understand that he said the choir came from America, and that it had been invited to the festival in Shanghai. The next time he came out, he told of our tour route, from Shanghai, to Xian, and then to Beijing. Although I didn’t understand any of the words he said next, I was able to understand what he said, as he told the audience that the choir had brought with them many friends and family, who were seated in the audience. All of the audience in front of us turned around in the seats to look back at us, but as most us didn’t catch on to what was said, almost everyone in our group also turned to look behind us to see what everyone in front of us was looking at. That was funny, indeed, as most of our group never figured out, until maybe sometime later, that we were the ones being pointed out. I told the few sitting next me that he was referring to us.
Photo: Choir at Shanghai Concert Hall, Opening Ceremony. This hall had good acoustics, the other place for the Sunday concert did not.

Prior to the concert, I went for a walk with Kraig Loveland as we had some time to kill. We walked to the north side of the Forbidden City, where, earlier in the day, I had notices a store that sold camera batteries and memory cards, so I went to see if I could find a rechargeable battery for my and Mom’s camera, as we were snapping so many photos that our batteries only lasted half the day. Even though it was the second to last day, I knew that the next day we were going to see the Great Wall and also drive by the Olympic Stadium, so wanted to have enough battery life. I found the right shop, and after some negotiations, was able to buy the batteries for about $14 each. Still probably more than the best price, but not too bad, I suppose. At first he wanted about $80 for one (I believe that almost all the vendors that deal with tourists operate under the principle of “never give a sucker an even break” and “every tourist is a potential sucker.”) After that on the way back, I ended up buying a Breitling watch, which according to the street vendor, “is almost as good as the real thing” Well, we shall see how long my $12 US investment lasts before falling apart.

On the way to the airport the next day, we were on the toll freeway, when traffic came to a stop because there was a wedding party (I looked like a wedding party, anyway) stopped on the freeway, with seven stretch limos. The guide said something about them having VIP status, so I guess that means they can stop and block traffic where every they want. They even had a police escort. I didn’t ever figure out why they were stopped there, but I just see that as another unique aspect of life in China.

Once we flew out of China and landed in Icheon airport in Korea, I really wanted to venture outside to say that I had truly been in South Korea. I believe it would have been possible, but the still small voice told me not to do it, and I listened. Had I not, Mom and I might still be in Seoul...who knows. I only know that no good would have come from leaving the airport. I was told by someone in my ward that everyone in Korea eats kimchi. I really wanted to try it. As I was not able to leave the airport, I looked and found a restaurant in the airport that served kimchi, so I gave it a taste. I loved it. It was very “pica” (spicy hot) as my family would say. On two of the airplane rides I was able to also try bimibap. I was impressed, and that was airplane food! It was also pica and very tasty. Based on that, I feel the need to now visit Korea and sample the food. Who knows, maybe Korea also has some interesting sights to see. Chinese food is very bland to our palette (I think that it why the Chinese restaurants in the USA add so much MSG), but it seems the Koreans like to really spice things up.

Monday, October 26, 2009

Video Clip of Hutong district in Beijing

The following is a short video clip I took with my cell phone during part of the ride on the bicycle rickshaw through the Hutong district.